What you do in the hours before bed affects how easily you fall asleep. A consistent evening routine helps your body recognize when it's time to wind down. These aren't complicated rituals—just simple habits that signal the transition from day to night.
Why Routines Matter
The Transition Period
Your body doesn't have an instant off switch. Moving from activity to sleep works better with a gradual transition:
- Helps your body start to relax
- Creates consistent sleep-wake timing
- Reduces the "can't turn off my brain" feeling
- Signals that sleep is approaching
Consistency
The routine itself matters less than doing it consistently:
- Similar activities at similar times each evening
- Your body learns the pattern
- Eventually, the routine itself triggers relaxation
Light Management
Dimming Down
Light affects your body's preparation for sleep:
- Dim room lights about 1-2 hours before bed
- Use lamps instead of bright overhead lights
- Warm-toned bulbs feel more relaxing than cool white
Screen Time
Screens emit light that can delay sleepiness:
- Reduce screen brightness in the evening
- Enable night mode on phones and computers
- Consider a screen cutoff time (even 30 minutes helps)
- If using screens, avoid stimulating content
Preparing Your Space
Bedroom Prep
Get your bedroom ready for sleep before you need it:
- Make the bed inviting (pull back covers)
- Set temperature appropriately
- Close curtains or prepare blackout shades
- Turn on any white noise or fan you use
Quick Tidy
- Put away items from the day
- Clear bedroom surfaces
- A neat space feels more restful
- Takes just a few minutes
Winding Down Mentally
Transitional Activities
Bridge activities between daytime and sleep:
- Reading (paper book or e-reader with warm light)
- Gentle stretching
- Listening to calm music or podcasts
- Light conversation with household members
- Journaling or writing
What to Avoid
- Work: Creates mental activation
- Stressful news or content: Raises anxiety
- Arguments or difficult conversations: Emotionally stimulating
- Exercise: Energizing (finish workouts earlier)
- Large meals: Digestion can interfere with sleep
Physical Preparation
Temperature
Your body cools as you prepare for sleep:
- A warm bath or shower can help (cooling after creates sleepiness)
- Cool bedroom supports natural temperature drop
- Avoid heavy blankets until you're actually in bed
Comfort Basics
- Brush teeth, complete hygiene routine
- Change into comfortable sleepwear
- Use the bathroom so you won't need to later
- Get water if you typically want it at night
Building Your Routine
Start Simple
A routine doesn't need to be elaborate:
- Start with 2-3 consistent activities
- Do them in the same order each night
- Add more elements if desired once basics are habit
Sample Basic Routine
- Dim lights, put away devices (30-60 minutes before bed)
- Light tidy, prepare bedroom
- Hygiene routine
- Read or other quiet activity
- Into bed
Timing
- Begin your routine at a consistent time
- Allow enough time—rushed routines don't relax
- 30-60 minutes is typical; adjust to your needs
When Routines Are Disrupted
Perfect consistency isn't always possible:
- Even a shortened version of your routine helps
- Keep core elements even when traveling
- Return to normal routine as soon as possible
- Don't stress about occasional disruptions
The 10-Minute Version
When time is short, keep the most essential elements: dim lights, brief tidy, hygiene basics. Even this abbreviated routine signals to your body that sleep is coming. Something consistent is better than nothing.