Noise is one of the most common sleep disruptors in apartments. Unlike a house, you share walls, floors, and ceilings with neighbors. Add traffic, building systems, and urban sounds, and achieving quiet can seem impossible. Here's how to reduce and manage nighttime noise.
Understanding Noise
Why Noise Disrupts Sleep
It's not just loud sounds that cause problems:
- Variability: Inconsistent sounds (talking, sudden noises) are more disruptive than steady sounds
- Timing: Noise during lighter sleep stages causes more awakenings
- Meaning: Sounds that might signal something important (voices, alarms) are harder to ignore
- Expectation: Anticipating noise can itself prevent relaxation
Common Apartment Noise Sources
- Neighbors (above, below, beside)
- Hallway and building activity
- Traffic and street noise
- Building systems (HVAC, plumbing, elevators)
- Internal sources (appliances, electronics)
Reducing Noise at the Source
Working with Neighbors
Sometimes the best solution is addressing the noise directly:
- A polite conversation about specific disturbances
- Focus on solutions rather than complaints
- Be specific about timing (after 10pm, early mornings)
- Note that many people don't realize how much sound travels
Building Management
- Report persistent noise issues to management
- Report noisy building systems (clanking pipes, loud HVAC)
- Check if quiet hours are being violated
- Ask about rules regarding flooring (hard floors can increase noise below)
Blocking Noise
Sound Absorption
Soft materials absorb sound and reduce echo:
- Rugs and carpets: Especially important with hard floors
- Heavy curtains: Absorb sound and block window noise
- Upholstered furniture: Absorbs sound better than hard surfaces
- Wall hangings: Tapestries, fabric art, or acoustic panels
- Bookcases: Books and irregular surfaces help absorb sound
Strategic Placement
- Place bookcases or heavy furniture against shared walls
- Position bed away from the noisiest wall
- Add rugs in areas where sound seems to travel
Sealing Gaps
Sound travels through air gaps:
- Doors: Weatherstripping and door sweeps reduce hallway noise
- Windows: Check for gaps; window sealing helps with street noise
- Outlets and switches: Foam gaskets behind covers on shared walls
- Pipes and vents: Seal gaps around penetrations
Masking Noise
White Noise
Consistent background sound masks variable noises. See our white noise guide.
- White noise machines: Dedicated devices producing consistent sound
- Fans: Provide both airflow and background noise
- Apps: Phone or tablet apps with various sound options
- Smart speakers: Can play continuous background sounds
Sound Types
- White noise: All frequencies equally; static-like sound
- Pink noise: Deeper, often described as more natural (rain, wind)
- Brown noise: Even deeper, rumbling sound
- Nature sounds: Rain, ocean, forest sounds
Personal Solutions
Earplugs
Earplugs physically reduce the noise reaching your ears:
- Foam: Inexpensive, disposable, good noise reduction
- Silicone: Reusable, moldable, water-resistant
- Wax: Moldable, create good seal
- Custom-molded: Made to fit your ears specifically
Earplug Tips
- Proper insertion matters—roll foam plugs thin, insert, let expand
- Try different types to find what's comfortable for you
- Keep ears clean to prevent irritation
- Replace disposable plugs regularly
Sleep Headphones
Soft headphones designed for sleeping:
- Headband-style with flat speakers
- In-ear options designed for side sleeping
- Can play white noise or music
- Some include active noise cancellation
Managing Expectations
Complete silence may not be realistic in an apartment:
- Some background noise is normal in shared buildings
- Focus on reducing the most disruptive sounds
- Masking often works better than complete elimination
- Adaptation happens—sounds that bother you initially may become less noticeable over time
The Layered Approach
Combining methods often works better than any single solution. For example: a rug on the floor + bookcase against shared wall + white noise machine + blackout curtains (which also absorb sound). Each layer reduces noise somewhat, and together they create significant improvement.